It is possible that in your day to day, motherhood or fatherhood is a steep slope that you find difficult to climb. There may be days that you think that you are not doing it well and that you even go to bed crying at night because you think you’re failing at something, even if you don’t know what. If this happens, we can already tell you that you are doing well, because you are trying to do the best you can every day.
But no one is perfect, no one can tell you that what you do every day in the education of your children is right or wrong, because you do what you can, how you can and always thinking of their good . You want them to grow up to be good people who have learned, thanks to you, to differentiate between good and evil.
First you educate your children so that coexistence at home is good, then, that education is extrapolated to the world. You want your children to be successful people and know how to live with others while climbing in life to achieve the goals they set for themselves . For this reason, your goal since they were born is for them to be good people and you instill in them good values that, in addition to contributing to their good development, also contribute to being good people.
You teach your children to be responsible, to to study, to do things thinking about the good with empathy towards others but without forgetting themselves. The world needs people who have a heart capable of making everything work better. Your children can get it, they need your daily guidance so that they learn to act in the right way and have their life under control.
How to get it
When you study you can get various titles, but the most valuable thing that can be achieved is not in the university, it is in life and it is being a good person. You may be wondering how you can make your children become good people… The good news is that it is in your hands to make it so. We give you the keys so that your children become good people in the future Take note!
Change yourself first
The first thing you have to do for your children to become good people is to change yourself. You must be the best example. If you yell, scold them, hit them, get desperate or get angry too quickly, it is difficult for you to ask your children to behave well later. If you want them to behave well, you have to be the best role model.
Teach about health and mood
Children should learn from an early age that health and mood go hand in hand, that’s why you have to take care of your health and avoid a sedentary life at all costs. A life without movement will only lead to physical and emotional problems… exercise is a good way to achieve this. Even just walking 30 minutes each day is more than enough to feel good.
Let them not lack interests
Children know that they have the responsibility to learn at school, but life It’s much more than that. For this reason, it is important that you help them find their interests, what motivates them above all things or what they are good at and that they had not yet realized.
Of course, don’t fill his agenda with activities just to find out what interests him, simply use the observation on what you think he might be interested in: arts, sports, science… there are many fields in which he can develop all your skills and potential. An activity that brings enjoyment will also help to forge the discipline so necessary to be successful in life.
The importance of helping others
It is important that teach your children the importance of helping others, of being proactive and of being good people with anyone, even if they don’t know how to reciprocate in the same way. Children must learn to be independent but also tolerant and know how to respect differences, and thanks to them, we have the gift of diversity in humanity.
Please forgive me and thank you
If there are some important words in the vocabulary these are: please, sorry and thank you. Children must learn to recognize others as their equals, to recognize their mistakes and learn from them and above all, through empathy they must have enough gratitude to show appreciation for the small details of life. Thus, they will feel much better about themselves and with the people around them… as well as with the life they have.
Healthy social relationships and a healthy relationship with one itself, it takes work and effort, but it pays off in the short and long term.