For many parents that their children are not ordered can be a real ordeal, especially when they repeat that they pick up over and over again. Order is essential both for the development of children and for their emotional well-being. For this reason, it is necessary that from an early age parents apply some tips so that their children are organized.

An organized child will have a more orderly mind and will be able to better assimilate the learning of life or school. But a child by himself is not orderly, therefore, he must be taught to be.

Different types of order: temporal and spatial

Order is essential in the life of any person, both adults and children. Provides security and confidence. For all these reasons, it is so important that the world be ordered both in time and in space.

Spatial order is balance in the physical environment. That it be practical, functional… having things in a way that makes life easier for us. This enhances autonomy and independence in children. Parents must provide that space where control, order and organization are always available. Giving this to your children with shelves, drawers and other storage tools at their fingertips.

Regarding the temporal order, we are referring to the routines and schedules of each day. This mental order will allow children to know what comes before or after each moment of the day. This will give them stability and security.

Keys to teach children to be organized

Taking into account everything mentioned above, it is time to give you some keys so that you can teach your children to be orderly, in all aspects. Take note:

  • Give him his personal space. It can be a bedroom or part of it (if it is shared).
  • Family hours. At school they already have a schedule, because at home there may also be another. Especially for the distribution of housework, lunch or dinner time, study time or games, etc. Of course, it must be flexible and adapting to the needs of family life.
  • Make him a part of the housework. Housework can also be done by younger children, you just have to adapt it to their age or their real abilities. But always, from a young age, they must collaborate in them.
  • Good order in toys. Of course, in playtime you don’t have to be very strict, but when playtime is over, all the toys should be picked up by the children and put in their place. If they are very young you can help them, but little by little you see giving them more autonomy in this task.
  • Everything at your fingertips. To make it easier for children to order their spaces, it is essential that everything is within their reach. Adapt the rooms of the home so that you can reach the storage areas.
  • The clothes at your fingertips. It is also a good idea to have an adapted wardrobe so that your little one can take the clothes that he wants to wear every day, or choose his shoes. You can also choose the options but that you know where it is and that you can take it or keep it.
  • At the end you always have to pick up. Whether it’s academic tasks or moments of play, your children should be aware that whenever an activity is over they must collect and order their things. When they are little you can help them, but little by little they will have to do it on their own.

They are small keys, easy to do and that must be instilled from a very young age. In this way, they will internalize this way of behaving in terms of order and as they grow up it will not be a problem for them, because they will see it as something totally normal.