There is no father or mother in the world who does not want their children to be happy. Happiness is the most important thing in your life, even more than your own! All parents want their children to grow up healthy and happy, and of course, they feel responsible to a certain extent for this to be the case. In fact, to achieve this, parents have a great role, because their attitude towards life will help make this possible.
Your behavior affects your children
Even if you don’t realize it, your way of acting and seeing life directly affects your children. On a day-to-day basis, you may not realize it, but it is essential that you are aware because this will make your children behave in one way or another. It is natural that you have a certain sense of protection towards your children when they are young, and this desire to protect them does not stop even if they continue to grow. You want to stay connected to your baby throughout your life, and that’s normal. No matter the circumstances or how tired, your baby will always be your baby, even if decades go by.
As your little one grows, his way of seeing the world also changes, as well as his behavior. There will be seasons when your son will be more rebellious than others, and that’s good, her personality is on the rise. What happens is that such a beautiful connection that you had with your child when he was younger can be seriously affected by the reprimands that are given and the bad behaviors that he has as he grows up.
Why Why is he behaving like this?
It is possible that you are surprised by his behavior. That you do not understand how your son as a baby was so loving and affectionate all the time, and now he has a behavior that makes you suffer and that seems to always be angry and on top of that he is disobedient. What is happening? Are you doing something wrong?
Don’t blame yourself for this, because you are not to blame for her behavior, but you can do your part to change it for the better. Don’t think that you can’t do anything because the child “is like that”… there are always moments of change! Although genetics has a lot to do with it, it does not determine 100% the negative behavior of a person. There is always something that can be done to improve circumstances.
How you live life affects your children
The way you live life and the how you behave in it directly affects your children. Negative attitude or having bad or toxic behaviors, such as ignoring your children for their bad attitude, constantly yelling at them, using threats and punishment… all of these can cause your children, who could have grown up with love and respect, to start to grow defensive, thinking they have to constantly defend themselves against you.
Children when they witness uncomfortable or negative situations , they are emotionally affected, although they don’t show it on the outside, they feel it very deep inside. This predisposes to changes in the personality of the little ones that could have been avoided with a more committed behavior on the part of the children. parents.
Your children are perfect readers of your non-verbal language, and if you are unhappy your children pick it up and their well-being will be seriously affected. Although it is true that life has bad moments and this cannot be changed for anything, what you do have in your hand is the power to change your attitude towards those bad moments. The way you face Difficult situations in life is crucial to feeling good.
This is how your children can grow up happy!
That your children grow up happy by your side is in your hands. With your behavior and your emotional balance you can help your children grow happier in all aspects of their lives. If today, you think that it is not possible because you have already lost that magical connection that you had with your child, do not settle! You can reconnect with your child in the most sincere and respectful way possible, and that your relationship will be wonderful again. Follow these tips so that you live your life better and your children are better by your side.
When we say live TODAY we mean live in the present. The past is behind us and the future is uncertain. You don’t have magic to change the things you’ve already done or the things that will happen in the future. Even if you are a great father or a great mother, if your mind is not in the present, your children may feel neglected by you. Live the little moments so that your children feel loved by you all the time. Enjoy the way they laugh, how they enjoy playing with you, the little details…
Remember that communication is fundamental, so talk to your child from the time he is a baby and do not lose this habit. Teach your children the importance of communication and thus they will understand your behaviors and in this way you will be able to foster their empathy towards you and towards the rest of the world.
Face life with good attitude
No one is exempt from bad moments in life… but your attitude and how you deal with them will be essential for the lives of your children. Difficult situations should not be seen as punishments, but as opportunities for learning and personal growth. Accepting how life comes is essential and very valuable for your child.